High praise for CONCACAF workshop

THE recent CONCACAF/FA workshop on Contracts, Transfers and Structurers for Development came in for high praise. And CONCACAF president Jack Austin Warner was commended for initiating the CONCACAF development programme since 2001, now being carried out by director of development Richard Braithwaite. Commendations came in a stirring address to the 38 participants from 18 countries by Manchester United director Maurice Watkins, who along with English FA officials Graham Noakes, Mark Ives and Kim Fisher conducted the four-day workshop at the Dr Joao Havelange Centre of Excellence, Macoya, Tunapuna. Watkins, a legal expert and FIFA dispute resolutions committee member later urged regional administrators to develop the new skills that are required to manage football in the modern era. He said: “We are at a crossroad in football.  It is a global game and times are changing fast. “We have become more aware and responsive to what is happening and we cannot remain fixed in our ways.  We must test and stretch ourselves and develop the new skills necessary to survive and grow. “Hopefully, this workshop has made a start and has provided a platform to build on, with the knowledge you acquired over the past four days. “The quality of your presentations during the workshop certainly demonstrate the necessary insight and appetite for success.”

Continuing, Watkins said: “You have worked hard to run football within the countries of this great Confederation and the responsibility now rests on you to deal with the many issues facing your federations. “For me, this has been a rewarding and enjoyable experience and the quality of the participants has contributed significantly to the success of the workshop.” Watkins said, “It demonstrates the seriousness of countries in CONCACAF and it is a credit to the Confederation and president.” And giving a vote of thanks, Mexican Federation director of finance Manuel Moreno Quiroga expressed gratitude to CONCACAF for hosting the workshop. He added: “I have learnt a lot, not only from the FA but from my colleagues as well.  Football is a big family and it is a force for uniting all our countries.“I congratulate the organisers on an excellent workshop.” Braithwaite told the participants “in all our activities, we have placed significant emphasis on quality both in terms of organisation and in content.” He pointed out the evidence was “right before your eyes in the excellent quality of the FA officials who have conducted this four-day workshop.” He listed as those among football experts to lecture here Professor Mariano Moreno of Spain, Dr Michael D’Hooghe, chairman of FIFA sports medical committee, Bruce Arena, coach of the USA national team, Alex Guimaraes Costa Rica coach, Dr. Zdenek Sivek of UEFA, Jean-Paul Brigger, Abedi Pele and Trinidadian Alvin Corneal of the FIFA technical study group, Les Reed, technical director of the English FA, Noakes and Watkins. Braithwaite said over 700 persons have been hosted at the Dr. Joao Havelange Centre of Excellence in the past three years.

Historic year for PoS/Environs in Sport

SUCCESS of the Port-of-Spain and Environs Educational District was on show as the athletes, coaches, teachers and distinguished guests gathered in the Audio Visual Room at the Hasely Crawford Stadium for the district’s 2003 Sports Awards. The year 2003 has been a historic year for the district as for the first time in its history both the boys and girls cricket teams won the Scotia Bank National Primary School Cricket Championship and the Track and Field team won the National Track and Field Primary School Championships. The significance of the Track and Field win was the fact that it is the 13th consecutive occasion that the district has won from 1990 to 2003, the dominance of athletics by the zone as outlined by the many speakers was teamwork. In addressing the intimate gathering Port-of-Spain Mayor, Murchison Brown commended the joint effort of the zone’s athletes and administration and outlined the need for this to continue not just in sport but in academics. The achievements of the sportsmen, the mayor continued said a lot about the support group that was provided by the teachers working together with the parents each in their time periods with their charges. The Mayor ended by offering congratulations to all athletes on hand  especially the girls and boy cricket teams. The School Supervisor II Mrs Sampson was also full of praise for the technical staff, principals, coaches and athletes including the  cricket, hockey, football, track and field and tennis teams.

Kelvin Nancoo, Co-ordinator, Sports Council was in a triumphant mood having seen the model for success patterned behind the aspirations of School Supervisor Joyce Barnett who had the vision to implement the Sports Council in 1991. The move Nancoo revealed has led to the district being unmatched  through administrative and support staff, he went on to say that this year he had the privilege of working with the best group of teachers ever since being a part of the council. Before handing out the awards Mancoo called for restructuring of the programme to catch up with the other regions in the areas of weakness in sport citing the need to catch up with the better developed divisional netball teams. Awards were handed out to the proud performers and to the School Supervisor II with David Ollivierre and Michelle Lee-Ahyee being named Sportsman and Sports Woman of the Year. At the end of the presentations the gathering was addressed by one of the people responsible for the pride, confidence and dedication of the district, Mrs Mennen Walker Briggs. Stating that the confidence that they display will always give them the upper intimidatory hand Briggs asked all those responsible for supporting the athletes to keep it up and success will be their reward. The motivator further went on to recite a motto she had used in the past “Hard work brings more work” with this assurance she ended giving those present a mouthful to chew and prepare them enough for next year. All speakers were in high praise of sponsors: Nestle Trinidad Limited, RBTT, Republic Bank, Scotia Bank, first Citizens Bank, Angostura Trinidad Limited, Pepsi Limited, Bermudez Limited, Prestige Holdings, Gulf Insurance, Neal and Massy Limited, Carib, National Flour Mills, Port-of -Spain Rotary Club, The Trinidad Publishing Company, the Management St Michael’s School for Boys, British American Insurance, Feel, the Management of the Hasely Crawford Stadium and The Ministry of Sport.The support Nancoo stated, was the result of the good product which the district had provided stating that the support had to be attracted on merit of performance and Nancoo promised all present  a fourteenth athletics crown next year. Honour roll: BOYS-Netball-Carenage Boys’ Government Primary.

GIRLS-Point Cumana RC.  Shooting team – St Phillip’s Government; Shooting individual — Kessi Ann Hamilton (St. Phillip’s Govt)
Cricket — BOYS — Diego Martin Boys R.C. Zonal — BOYS — Diego Martin Boys’ RC (West); Mucurapo Boys’ RC (Central). GIRLS — Petit Valley Girls’ RC. Zonal — Petit Valley Girls’ RC (West); St. Martin’s RC (North).Track and Field — Port-of-Spain and Environs (1990-2003)Victor Ludorum: -Under-9: Taurean Mitchell (East A); Under-11: Kevin Skinner (Central B); Under-13: Aqui Quashie (West A); Under-15: Azaro Marquez (West B).Victrix Ludorum: Under-9: Josanne Joseph (East A) Kadesha Theophilus (East A); Under-11: Marissa Gale (Central B); Under-13: Michell Lee-Ahyee (West A); Under-15: Shinead Constant (West B) Arlene Alexander (East A).

Remembering Eddy Odingi

TWO years ago on Saturday last, Eddy Odingi wrote his last story, swung his final golf club. But such a good friend and colleague was he, we cannot forget. No, not Mervyn Wells, David Brewster, Trevor Clarke nor I. What a cheerful personality, plain, down-to-earth golfing fanatic, steelband and calypso lover was Eddy, who you people in the Maraval hillside knew as Edwin Taylor. Only two months ago, I went off to the sister-isle to cover the Tobago Plantatuions Senior Classic Golf Championship, and while in my hotel room after the opening day, it struck me — Eddy would have loved it here. Yes the Pan Jumbie, under which pen name Eddy wrote so many articles on the preparation of the bands for Panorama is no more. I can still see those plush graying sideburns, hear that quaint laugh. Rest in peace Eddy.  We still remember you and your wife Angie too, of course and the rest of the family.

St Paul Street chase windball cricket double

AS the Andy’s Drinks sponsored Sunday School Limited Overs Windball Cricket League 2003 winds down, the St Paul Street team has already been crowned knockout champs. In the final against Conquerors on Friday last, St. Paul scored a massive 162 for five wickets, Ancil McDonald hitting 59 and Ken Joseph 49. There were no conquering for Conquerors thereafter, as they were bowled out for a paltry 37. Joseph showed off his allround prowess taking four wickets for four runs and McDonald took  two wickets without allowing a single run. In the semi-finals to decide the league finalists St Paul Street made a strong thrust to complete the double with a 26-run victory over St Francois Youths. Batting first St Paul reached 102 for seven wickets. McDonald scored 36 not out and James Mitchell produced 21. St Francois were bowled out  for 76 in reply, with  Damion Thomas taking four for three. Fun Lovers will meet St Paul’s in the final after beating Conquerors in their semi-final. The Fun Lovers reached 144 for five wickets with Earl Wilson scoring 58 and J Lewis 26, then routed Conquerors for 61 all out.

Mendez can go to Top Of The Class

AFFABLE trainer Glenn Mendez holds a very strong hand in today’s feature CLICO Midsummer Classic to be run off at Santa Rosa Park, Arima. The unassuming conditioner will saddle pre-race favourite Top Of The Class, Sweet Tempo and Celebration Time in the 1900 metres event, the second jewel of the local triple crown. Following his emphatic 12-length victory over his peers in the UPTC Easter Guineas over 1800 metres, 100 metres less than today’s trip in April, this son of Freshly Squeezed/Crescendo has thrived, and will take a lot of beating. Celebration Time ran on gamely to be fourth in the Guineas, and this improving sort, a half sister to Top Of The Class can again find a place since she is well suited to the distance. And in Sweet Tempo, Mendez’s third arrow in his quiver, turfites must be well be mindful to use them among their trifecta combinations. Can it be a 1-2-3 for Mendez in the race sponsored by Colonial Life Insurance (Trinidad) Company worth $125,000? Remember too, Mendez is the only trainer to saddle the winner of the Triple crown in Carnival Messiah in 2001 since Sky Glory in 1975, and he is aiming to emulate the feat.

The answer will be forthcoming by approximately 5.05 pm this afternoon. But for all this, it will not be a three-horse race by any stretch of the imagination, since Due Dilligence, Isle Be There, Cornerstone, Royal Flush  and Loud Music holds the engagement. One can never leave out a runner trained by that wily owner-trainer-breeder Maniram “Boboy” Maharaj who sends Loud Music to post. And turfites only have to throw their mind back to last year’s race when Miss Laura Lee stunned all by beating the raging favourite Napoleon. There is no denying John O’Brien is an excellent judge of horse flesh, and of course he will have his trio Due Dilligence, Isle Be There and Cornerstone as fit as he could get them. Due Dilligence was a star turn as a two-year-old but went wrong which curtailed his three-year-old campaign to just two races before today. But if back to his best could be the fly in the ointment, something which could also be said for the filly Cornerstone. O’Brien’s biggest threat however, seems to be Isle Be There, especially if the rains keep falling on the Santa Rosa track. He seems to relish the slop, and could give owner Diane Scott a welcome success for the disappointment of Isle Be True in last year’s Royal Oak Derby. And the Scotts seems destined for some change of luck in this classic event, since going without a winner in this event for more than two decades. The form points to Top Of The Class however, along with stablemate Sweet Tempo. Isle Be There is a big danger to them all. Today’s 10-race programme will test turfites to the limit since it is a very  competitive and well put together card. And although the Classic will hold the spotlight, there are several “good” races on the programme including the second feature the CLICO Santa Rosa Dash for the top class runners over 1200 metres. This one, despite a disappointing field of just five runners could turn out to be a brain-teaser with any of the quintet capable of taking the winner’s purse of $45,000. But the form of Sugar Mike, despite his topweight of 56.5 kilos, must be respected. Then there is the speedy gelding Song Of Freedom, flashy Tactical Bid the only filly in the line-up, the consistent Invincibility and Fortunate Flag who won her last two races.

Need for labour unity

Labour Day will be celebrated today with the country’s trade union movement still divided, and with the formalising of the widening split in the movement through the planned establishment in October of a rival group to the National Trade Union Centre (NATUC). The group, the Federation of Independent Trade Unions and NGOs (FITUN), is expected to hold a convention in October, at which time the election of officers should take place. Both umbrella trade union organisations will march separately in Fyzabad today in celebrations marking the 66th anniversary of the June 19, 1937, Social Revolution led by the charismatic labour leader, the late Tubal Uriah Butler. Even in 1937 the labour movement was divided, with many of the main labour groups in the north supporting Capt A A Cipriani and the oilworkers in South Trinidad (with tacit support of the sugar workers in Central Trinidad) behind Butler. Indeed, it was the attempt by the Police to arrest Butler, as he addressed striking oil workers on June 19, 1937, which led to massive social unrest and the death of Corporal Charlie King, the officer seeking to effect the arrest.

Today the oilworkers, led by the President General of the Oilfields Workers Trade Union, Errol McLeod, and the sugar workers, headed by Rudranath Indarsingh, President General of the All Trinidad Sugar and General Workers Trade Union, are on opposite sides of the labour fence, with Indarsingh acting as President of NATUC. One of the critical issues facing the country’s divided trade union movement is the question of the increasing number of employment opportunities, advertised for University graduates and other trained as well as skilled persons, being offered on contract. Apart from the implied absence of job security, save for the contracted period, workers on contract in the absence of required legislation, will not be eligible for retirement pensions. This is not a situation limited to Trinidad and Tobago, but is international in scope and one of the troubling aspects of globalisation spawned by the rules and regulations established by the World Trade Organisation. Already sugar is tacitly under siege by the WTO’s policies and by the impending end of preferential entry of sugar to the European Union.

Already, Government, acknowledging that TT’s formerly assured market for sugar in the European Union will end by 2005 or 2006, has moved to restructure the State-owned sugar company, Caroni (1975) Limited. In turn, employment opportunities in the energy-based sector are not expected to grow significantly unless it produces considerable downstream activity. The mega-plants being established by multi-nationals, for example Atlantic LNG, require only a relative handful of highly qualified persons to maintain their operation. With the advance of globalisation and the advent of a hemispheric free trade area, in fact, the trade union movement in TT must begin to gear itself to meet serious challenges. In light of this, not only is unity vital but the movement must also seek to broaden its horizons and affiliations, establishing contacts regionally and within the hemisphere. At the same time they should be devising strategies to ensure the financial security and stability of their members to counter the threat of job loss. The way the world is doing business is changing at a dazzling pace and trade unions must adjust to this evolution or become redundant. They must pull themselves out of the old political and ideological ruts and come together to meet the 21st century.

Homage to Labour


I can’t think of a better day to revisit the piece I wrote in 1980 in praise of two workmen who all but remodelled my kitchen in two weeks — flat — leaving a first-rate cabinet maker to complete the work in the following few weeks. In common with many other readers, I’ve been wondering which company has been paying for full-page advertisements in the daily press in praise of the human mind. Day after day that anonymous advertisement appeared — with no single word of explanation. It wasn’t natural to keep us guessing so long. When would that mysterious advertiser reveal all? Why was it hiding its light under a bushel of expensive newsprint? On Tuesday May 7 (1980, remember) I was still wondering why that company was being so shy about the brains behind the business. On Thursday, May 16 I knew  not who, but why, the advertiser was keeping so quiet about such a resourceful thing as the human mind. The reason was — and is — that I had just learned the lesson that when you have a good thing going, you keep quiet about it, because everyone’s going to want it. So I intend to keep quiet, very quiet indeed about the human minds that have been at work in my home for the past two weeks. This is how it happened. On May 7 two young men followed the contractor into my home and straightway began ripping my kitchen apart. I could see how much they were enjoying their work. One attacked the cabinets with a crowbar, the other started knocking out walls with a small sledgehammer — and I began to wonder (too late, as usual) if my kitchen had really been as cramped and inconvenient as I’d been saying it was in the past12 years. Three hours later the winds were whistling through what had been solid walls when I’d sat down to breakfast. At lunchtime our young architect dropped by to see how the work was progressing. As he walked in the front door his mouth fell open and he staggered slightly from shock.

“Eh, eh!”, he cried, “I’ve never seen men work so fast since I was in Switzerland.” From him, that was praise indeed. But there were even more surprises in store for him — and me. Although the workmen in the houses around us began to pack up to go home about 3 30 pm, our men showed no signs of calling it a day. They worked steadily and at the same pace until it was well past time for me to cook the family dinner. At six o’clock they swept up their mess — and my husband suggested Chinese food. Before I had time to wash the breakfast wares the next morning, my men were at work again. There were new walls to build, arches to form, tiles to be laid and not a moment to lose. Yet, at the same time, a wall is a thing of beauty and precision. To watch both those men at work was to understand why Winston Churchill wrote a whole book in the subject of bricklaying, and the art, skill and craft of the mason.

Those men needed no music while they worked. They rarely spoke to each other. Their lunch break averaged 15 minutes. Their concentration was fierce as they strung lines, consulted spirit levels, made moulds for arches, cast a new floor and laid tile over it. Our architect frankly admitted that they knew more about the work than he did. I should explain that he was still at University in the UK studying architecture and ours was a holiday assignment remodelling a kitchen in an old house. He said once our workmen knew what he wanted them to do, they needed no more supervision. By midday, May 16, their work was finished and my kitchen completely transformed, all ready for the electricians and the cabinet maker to start work. We’d had a few small problems with the plumbers. I’d lost five pounds in weight running around keeping the masons supplied with materials, and the good God alone knew where half my kitchen equipment was stored in the selection of supermarket cartons stacked around what could only be laughingly referred to as a dining room. Those who have already experienced, lived through the turmoil of renovating an old house will know that the rest of the house looks more like a jumble sale than the comfortable home it was three weeks ago and, God willing, will be again before the year is out.

As for me, I’m happy to admit that these last ten days have been a revelation. One can’t have masons in the house without there being a mess — but I didn’t mind it at all. It was a pleasure to see two men take such pride and — I think — joy in their work. And, as that anonymous advertiser wrote, the pride shows in every tile so precisely placed and every wall so carefully constructed. I’m proud of our kitchen and very, very proud of “my” masons. And, as I warned you before, I’m, not going to tell you who they are or where to find them. Anyway — there’s a long waiting list for their services. However … I suspect there’s no waiting list for the gang of four to six men (it varies) and two water ladies working on a project less than a mile away from my home — but you don’t need me to fill in the details on that scenario. But it goes to prove that whoever that anonymous advertiser may be, the company is quite right to be proud of their people and to tell the whole of TT that a good job of work is built on pride in work well done, recognised and appreciated — be the workman a mason or a managing director.” And that, I think applies to Labour Day, 2003, as well.

African who is Trini to the bone

THE EDITOR: It is very rare that I choose a public forum to respond to backward or divisive statements made by African persons locally. The last time was in response to Brother Marvin’s defence of his Jahaji Bhai composition. Normally, I would choose one of the many other available avenues to quietly enlighten or chastise. But today I read a report of statements made by Reggie Dumas at a recent “Indian” seminar at UWI. If the reporting is correct, then we (the African community) may have more of a task on our hands than we thought — after the work of the last 35 to 40 years. Perhaps it would suffice to state, in the simple, mono-syllabic words of those days, a few facts for my brother’s benefit. You see, Reggie, persons like myself do not confuse race and nationality when we refer to ourselves as Africans. We acknowledge our heritage (the richness of what we got from where we came from) by stating that we are African, by race. Also, we are fiercely nationalistic in our claim to be just as much “Trini to the bone.” We see them as being dual parts of our identity as human persons. In those early days, we sought to strengthen ourselves by immersing in the knowledge and then the practice of the culture of our ancestors — for which many often praise those of other racial origins.

Many, like myself, chose not to trace our lineage to any specific country or village on that continent. Instead, we acknowledge the wisdom of the quotation: “I am African not because I was born in Africa, but because Africa was born in me!” But permit me to share a little experience with you. In 1976 I first set foot on my ancestral land. I stood in a hotel lobby in North Africa and saw two brothers whispering and pointing at me. One was from the Gambia and the other from then Zaire. My queries revealed that they were debating my origin — not whether I was an African, but whether I was Fulani or Yoruba! In Egypt in 1984, they merely asked, “Are you Nubian?” My affirmative answer led to an invitation into their home and to tea. However, my brother, your comments do not annoy me — disappoint me a little, perhaps. More, they make me sad that, in some ways, we are still where we were three decades ago. They challenge me to continue to teach, by letter and my life, the value of my heritage and the inescapable facts of my being. But then, I am not “black people” who need repackage to not offend other people. I will define myself, I will be myself. Okay my brother? No attempts at heavy philosophy. No parading of history or grandstanding with big words. Just a few small truths — to help you grow? Pity, too, that you chose to lend yourself to giving credibility to underdeveloped minds that would compare our TT to Nazi Germany and label you one of their “oppressors.”  Fortunately, it seems that there were also some there whose heads were screwed on right.

APOESHO MUTOPE
TANA, Tunapuna

Sacrifice of debating skills

THE EDITOR: I have always supported the view that the pen and the word are mightier than the sword. There is no substitute for the good old fashioned debate in which arguments are based on well-researched evidence, proper presentation, characterised by skilful debate and repartee over the years 1956-2003. The traditional Opposition, whether it was the PDP, DLP, ULF or UNC, has never been short of talented, skilful parliamentarians. In fact, they have had more than their fair share of talented debaters from Ashford and Mitra Sinannan, Simbhoonath Capildeo, Lionel Frank Seukeran, Balgobin Cassandra Ramdeen, Dr Monty Forrester, Peter Farquahar, Lilias Wight, Nazim Muradali, Hans Hanoomansingh, Shaffie Shah, Raffique Shah, Stephen Maharaj, Taj Hosein and more recently Basdeo Panday, Trevor Sudama, Ramesh Maharaj, Winston Dookeran, Bhoe Tewarie, Kelvin Ramnath, Nizam Mohammed, Kamla Persad Bissessar, etc, all capable of making valuable and constructive contributions to our national parliament on the numerous issues that confront the national community, and God knows that there is no shortage of issues, from crime, the environment, unemployment, energy, education, Caricom, national unity to global trading, all issues requiring the maximum effort of our elected and nominated members. Yet for some unexplained reason, our traditional Opposition has, over the years, preferred to indulge in Speaker bashing, allegations of discrimination, alienation, and character assassination.

A careful examination of Hansard over this period will clearly support these allegations. Unfortunately Speakers over the years have been targetted and/or reserved for their most destructive pieces of political artillery, from E Mortimer Duke, Arnold “the Tiger” Thomasos, “Poor” Matthew Ramcharan, their own colleague, Nizam Mohammed, Madame Occah Seepaul, even Hector Mc Lean got his taste of the Speaker’s medicine and new Mr Barry Sinannan. The only one that has escaped their wrath was Mr Rupert Griffith. Their most powerful and dangerous pieces of political missiles have always been reserved and directed to Indo-Trinidadian Speakers whom they assume had betrayed their cause, whatever that is supposed to be. Matthew Ramcharan, a decent, respectable citizen was humiliated. Occah Seepaul got the full works deservedly or not and now with Barry Sinanan, their venom knows no limit. Over the years, it has not been confined or directed exclusively to the Government benches. They have attacked each other with full force, washing a lot of their dirty linen in public, fighting and destroying each other. The worst period that I recall was 1961-1966 and 1966-1971. As a regular visitor to our parliament, I vividly recall some of the utterances of Simbhoo Capildeo who called Stephen Maharaj a murderer, accusing him of giving Bhadase Maraj the drug, Petadeen, which he said was killing Bhadase. Simbhoo told Stephen, quote “When Bhadase dies, I will come to the funeral and say you kill him, you kill him, you kill him.”

Even the intervention of Speaker Thomasos could not stop the onslaught. Their struggles for power and leadership of a party, characterised by the absentee leadership of Dr Rudranath Capildeo and an ailing Bhadase, on the one hand, and the ambition of Jamadar, Lequay, Maraj, etc on the other. Talent and debating skills gave way to antagonism and character assassination, Friday after Friday, the Speaker had to be equipped with a political breast plate. The no vote Parliament of 1971 reduced our Parliamentary Opposition to a comical level with Roy Richardson and Dr Horace Charles bringing comic relief to the Speaker. Come 1976 and the ULF, the battle lines were drawn again. I don’t know who left the artillery in the will for Panday and the ULF, but before it was probated and fully effected, Panday and Shah were at each other’s throat. The rest is well known to us, over the years, the traditional Opposition has continued to sacrifice their knowledge and debating skills and considerable experience on the altar of what they seem to consider as effective political artillery, blackmail and disrespect for the Speaker’s chair. The Senate President has had to face allegations of discrimination, alienation and suffer total disrespect for her authority, while they continue to indulge in these outdated practices. The Government, with more than their fair share of non-performers, many lacking in effective debating skills, invariably gets off free as they continue to enjoy the comical behaviour with the likes of Kelvin Ramnath, Robin Montano and Wade Mark etc. All members, especially the experienced Ramnath, can do much better and are completely unconscious of the fact that the most destructive weapon outside of the nuclear family known to mankind is television. As I said before there is no shortage of issues for constructive debate: national security, education, the environment, energy, drugs, money laundering, crime, BWIA and other state enterprises, sport and constitution reform. I will give my own views on this matter in my next article. Come on Bas, stop the kite flying and get on with the people’s business. You will not only gain respect, you may even gain support.


FERDIE FERREIRA
Diego Martin


 

God is not silent on sex

THE EDITOR: With so much being made these days of the issue of sex and sexuality, and especially in view of the recent activities of Sven Miki Grant and his associates, I feel compelled to add my own thoughts to the increasing list of divergent views on the matter. The concept of sex is not limited to the physical. It embraces also the emotional, the mental and the psychological. Sexual intercourse, or coitus, represents the closest any human being could ever get to another. When one engages in it, therefore, there is the expectation, whether it is conscious or subconscious, that the coitus represents a lifelong, mutual commitment made between two persons. If this expectation is not realised, there can arise feelings of betrayal, disillusionment, heartache and/or anger at being exploited. These feelings can be intense, and the concommitant misery can be permanent, irremediable. So it is advisable that coitus be entered into only after such commitment has become absolute. Making and maintaining it requires personal integrity, maturity, loyalty and responsibility. All of this makes it beyond anyone who is not yet of legal age or who has not mastered the art of self-control. God is not silent on the subject. He has recommended legal marriage as the best setting and only outlet for coitus. He has also provided additional guidelines, such as the following:

1) “Flee from fornication.” Cor. 6:18 (Fornication is coitus outside of marriage.) 2) “For everything there is an appointed time.” Eccl. 3:1 (There is no reason to be in a desperate haste to have sex.) 3) “Through love slave for one another.” Gal. 5:13 (Persons engaging in coitus must each be willing to do the things that titillate the other.) 4) “Treat others as you would like them to treat you.” Luke 6:13. (Coitus should be attempted only by mutual consent.) That, as a recent advertisement claims, 46 percent of women have never experienced an orgasm is a telling indication of the great number of people who fail to heed especially the last two bits of advice mentioned above. The modern diversity of opinions on the subject of sex has resulted in a confusion that is potentially harmful, even pernicious, and ultimately needless. I therefore suggest to Sven Miki Grant and his associates, as well as to any others of their ilk, that their method of sensitising the public on this issue would be even more effectual if it could be bolstered by their candidly and accurately representing to the people the opinion of the One from whom came the concept of sex and all that it entails.

D CHARLES
Carenage